Cowgirl is a tricky one in this exact context because that is probably the favorite pose of many men in normal sex. So to see yourself riding a girl who’s wearing a strap-on can be pretty fucked up. Luckily, these man are already used to it by now and are looking forward to having their asses fucked and their nipples abused and things like that while also looking at a hot girl who’s aggressively fucking them and loving it. It’s about that bond that you get from fucking in that pose and being able to look each other in the eyes while doing it. That’s why it is such an important pose and the important way of having sex, since many people discovered that they are into this S&M kind of thing. Many promising young men, who always thought they were the dominant and had a blissful future, discovered through this exact pose and spot that they just loved giving themselves to various women and acting like pathetic slaves and sluts for them. And women also enjoy that feeling of breaking a guy and breaking his spirit too, so much that he will never be able to go back again.